Actually no, it's not
important to be understood. It's important
to be clear.
To mean what you know you mean,
and not
something else. This sits
solely
among your burdens, which
ride duly upon your shoulders,
as long as you don't shirk them.
And it is entirely
within your
power.
That
other people
understand you
is an accident,
a concern possibly,
and none of yours;
To be busier meaning
what you say
than striving fantastically within the other's
imperfectly-imagined brain, tweaking tone, twisting points,
spinning them 90 to 360 degrees to appreciate
difference of perspective, angles of rotation,
arc and yaw, and other aspects of "how
will they take it"
is your business. What you give
is your business. What they take
is accidental. Partial.
A creative and experimental collaboration
between inference and implication,
so leave yours out, why don't you?
Hanging out for all to see.
As clear as you could make it for the world,
without contortion and adjustment for each
little mark you're trying to con. Each
little oyster you're trying to imperil. Each
little bird you're trying to line up
for the stone.
No.
Be about
meaning what you say, and put it
unmistakably. Directly.
Unquestionably. If they fail
to understand, fine then.
Take questions and answer them.
One by one, once again,
following where they lead
- all the way home. Being understood
is not important. Just like being
fallen in love with
is not important. What's not within your power
cannot be important. Just give
what you mean. Give
what you feel.
Give others what they need,
if they want to.
If they see their way clear
and want to take it. Don't lead them, or sell them,
or spin them. Just find out what you mean,
where you're going with it,
and continue.
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