If you're a man,

If you're a man,
control your state
of arousal! You may think
a gigantic erection, clearly
visible through the pants, is
your best chance to impress people

and make them conclude you are
confident,
comfortable
in your own skin, and
at ease with yourself.

In an ideal world,
maybe so. However.
Many cultures are very reserved
about sexuality, you know. You
could even say repressed. People

who spot your evident bulge
may not be impressed, but intimidated
or disgusted by the rawness of your state.

They may consider your erection
to be disrespectful, or unsuited
to the occasion. They may also believe

you lack self-control, or are insensible
to social norms and taboos. Even if you
recognize such taboos

for what they are

it's still important to demonstrate
you are able to negotiate them, and
function in a world where they matter
to most people. Self-control is, after

all, a good thing to have - and to show.

But remember: this does not mean
your penis is shameful. Only that you are

sensitive and considerate
of the frailties of others.