The reason people respond to babies is
this little being
is hanging out, carried around
in a padded jumper that seems like
it should immobilize their limbs.
Face poking out all smooth cheeks,
mouth composed, unimpressed
and eyes - just looking.
A calm peer. This kid's gone past
trying to figure things out. Maybe
in the first few weeks, some protest -
having recently been removed
from a perfectly satisfactory state!
By now, they've discovered there's
satisfaction here more or less.
Including the purest rage on earth
- an infant protesting discomfort!
In this moment though, comfort
is go. No impositions or outrages.
Not cranky or hungry or tired just:
looking. Not even to understand.
Just take it in, maybe squirm, turn
one's head away from some big huge
interloper but otherwise: a sort of
default astonished receptivity.
"Things making sense" is a social construct
this one has yet to imbibe. A lot of us
responding to babies, it's not so much
"oh, I remember that" (we don't) it's
Yeah. You pretty much got it kid.
That's about all it is
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